Behavior Problems
“Good judgement come from experience, and a lot of that comes from bad judgment.”
~ Will Rogers
Character Building
Parenting information
Classic Parenting Books or Audio
Brain Storm (teens) by Dr. Dan Siegel
https://www.amazon.com/dp/158542935X/ref=cm_sw_r_tw_dp_Y7A6GFFXK8G740970ZDM
Parenting from the Inside Out by Dr. Dan Siegel
The Whole-Brain Child (kids) by Dr. Dan Siegel
BLOOM by Dr. Lynne Kenney
The Explosive Child by Dr. Ross Greene
The Defiant Child by Dr. Douglas Riley
Help your child or yourself Get Motivated
- Check out Eric Thomas
http://etinspires.com/
https://youtu.be/DtCKRLvjhnc
Understanding emotions for Kids and Parents
- https://youtu.be/3bKuoH8CkFc
or search YT: Why Do We Lose Control of Our Emotions?
Need help with Emotional Management or Anger Problems?
- Explore Dr. Conte emotional management tools online
www.drchristianconte.com
search YouTube for “Dr. Conte emotional management”
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC47w9g7lESxzqefb5vWkN1Q
Alternative Medicine
- Dr. Davis @ 919-749-6288
Raleighholistichealthcare.com
[email protected]
Improve Self-regulation & reduce Anxiety…
- Check out Jon Kabat-Zinn & search YouTube for videos
- Self-help: http://www.mindfulnesscds.com/
- take a daily relaxation minute: www.Just-A-Minute.org
- take up hobby and / or mind-body based fitness activity
- enjoy a daily walk
- spend more time outside
- start a regular fitness routine
- explore exercises known to reduce anxiety e.g., stretching, Yoga poses, breathing drills, etc
- learn about intrusive thoughts: www.intrusivethoughts.org
Breathwork for Self-Regulation @ www.YouTube.com (search below):
- Diaphragmatic breathing exercises Or Belly Breathing
- Deepak Chopra breathing exercise
- Deepak Chopra sleep meditation cd
- 7 Days to Restful Sleep – Streaming
Classic Breathing Exercises
Dr Weil 478
Square breathing exercise
Learn CBT skills to better interpret the Fight or Flight system
- Introduction: https://youtu.be/WhMmZJ3H1E8 Or search You Tube: “Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Simply Explained”
Watch This Movie…
Learn about Wim Hof’s method
- The Wim Hof Method — Become Strong, Happy & Healthy
- Introduction: https://youtu.be/VaMjhwFE1Zw or Search YouTube: “Inside the Superhuman World of the Iceman”
- Also download phone app – Wim Hof App (called “Inner Fire”)
Achieve Your Personal Best!
Learn about “FLOW” – achieving Optimal Experience
BY Dr. MIHALY CSIKSZENTMIHALY
Search YouTube: “FLOW BY MIHALY CSIKSZENTMIHALYI | ANIMATED BOOK REVIEW”
Direct link: https://youtu.be/8h6IMYRoCZw
Find a Yoga class and/or practice at home
Bikram Yoga beginner 30 minutes https://youtu.be/yFtDSWWfYmI
Search YouTube: “Beginners Bikram Yoga Instructional Narration”
Emotional Regulation Skills Workbooks:
The Dialectical Behavior Therapy Skills Workbook: Practical DBT Exercises for Learning Mindfulness, Interpersonal Effectiveness, Emotion Regulation & … Tolerance (New Harbinger Self-Help Workbook)
by Matthew McKay et al.
Link: http://amzn.com/1572245131
DBT® Skills Manual for Adolescents
by Jill H. Rathus Phd et al.
Link: http://amzn.com/1462515355
Mindfulness & Teenagers
Being a teen can be really stressful! Mindfulness is a powerful way to handle stress, and live life more fully. Mindfulness is all about living fully in the present moment, without judgment, and with an attitude of kindness and curiosity. It’s about breathing, noticing what’s happening right here and now, sending a gentle smile to whatever you’re experiencing in this moment (whether it’s easy or difficult), and then letting it go. You can be mindful anytime, anywhere, no matter what you’re doing. It sounds simple, but it’s not always easy to do, especially when you are stressed! This website provides information, tools, and resources to help you get started.
Teenager Must Do’s…
- Start a fitness routine
- Learn about nutrition and eat better
- Learn a hobby and spend time trying to master it
- Seek volunteer opportunities in the local community
- Get work and volunteer experiences to build a resume
- Begin exploring career interest
- Learn about all sorts of Occupational opportunities
- Explore Occupations that will be needed in the future
- Visit Colleges, Technical schools, or businesses
- Seek a shadow opportunity for any job interest area as available
- Start home based chore & activity incentive plan – Teach how to become an “Earner” Learn money management principals
http://www.daveramsey.com - Explore Martial Arts e.g., Jiu Jitsu, Karate, Taekwondo
- Get Mentally and Physically Fit, Learn Discipline and Practice Self-Control
Ongoing behavioral problems?
- Explore: Tarheel challenge academy
http://nc-tcachallenge.org/